tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post1567813078767177489..comments2023-08-26T10:37:19.891-04:00Comments on Business or Pleasure?: Douchebag RelativesKatherinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-65168870950455991932012-02-22T13:01:20.125-05:002012-02-22T13:01:20.125-05:00Your family will never change. Even when you bend ...Your family will never change. Even when you bend over backwards and move the sky and the ocean for them, they'll always be the ungrateful, spiteful lot you got saddled with. But, look at how much you love your little cousins and their kids and look at how happy you are when you get to spend time with them. Don't take the crimes of their parents (and your parents) and brand them all with Michttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16680769083569249961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-68134424481649591672012-02-20T18:21:40.069-05:002012-02-20T18:21:40.069-05:00They are never going to change, and they are not w...They are never going to change, and they are not worth the trouble of letting my blood pressure go through the roof. I just know that I'm done always being the nice one, bending over backwards for anyone and everyone. It's just such a cliche. I'm tired of it all.<br /><br />I just need to put myself first so that I can find my own dreams. Putting everyone else ahead of myself hasn'Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-73677474276318655792012-02-20T18:18:36.162-05:002012-02-20T18:18:36.162-05:00I can understand when circumstances change and pla...I can understand when circumstances change and plans get scrapped. It sucks, but it happens. They are just so fucking sneaky about everything they do. It's hard to make nice with people who don't know how to be honest on a regular basis. I think it's the inconsideration that really gets under my skin. Inconsiderate people have no place in my life.Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-724092753410877812012-02-20T13:16:57.902-05:002012-02-20T13:16:57.902-05:00I find it hard to believe that family can do that ...I find it hard to believe that family can do that to family. How incredibly hurtful and mean-spirited. Dare I suggest that you confront your uncle when they get back? Would that open up a huge can of worms? Let cooler heads prevail. And like you've said in the past, sometimes the older generation isn't going to change. You have to find the change in your generation and correct issues likeJoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07770188721335115494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-19451849988187953872012-02-20T12:44:15.238-05:002012-02-20T12:44:15.238-05:00That last paragraph, I feel that way a lot. I don&...That last paragraph, I feel that way a lot. I don't really know what I can do about it except to keep doing what I'm doing only more and harder.<br /><br />That's really shitty about your relatives. Why wouldn't they tell his wife and children?! And I HATE when I disrupt my plans for someone else and then they cancel. SO much hate.The Noir Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05083554242251593591noreply@blogger.com