tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post8022360538971777767..comments2023-08-26T10:37:19.891-04:00Comments on Business or Pleasure?: Don'tKatherinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-26559195669166503222012-09-30T01:07:44.579-04:002012-09-30T01:07:44.579-04:00Both completely valid points. I think the willingn...Both completely valid points. I think the willingness to change and the ability to change first starts with the acknowledgement that something NEEDS to change. Most people resist this first step, so the other two never fall into place. They give the illusion of change, but it really isn't happening. So, I guess everyone makes a rally valid point.<br /><br />It's like apologizing to Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-778261172152564442012-09-29T05:17:15.596-04:002012-09-29T05:17:15.596-04:00I agree with Josh. I look back on my own life and...I agree with Josh. I look back on my own life and realized that I've changed a lot myself. I do think it's easier to change though, if the person is open to it. But that's just my observation. ;)Sessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02938920198709166545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-9727549350516258452012-09-21T14:49:15.878-04:002012-09-21T14:49:15.878-04:00I'm disagreeing. If people see that their acti...I'm disagreeing. If people see that their actions are hurting their loved ones, I think they can change. If their reason is strong enough. How do you explain recovering addicts or alcoholics? I'm not saying its easy to change, but it's possible if the person is really willing to put the work into it. If they don't think anything is wrong with them and you're strong arming themJoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07770188721335115494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-36564045840583664412012-09-20T19:11:50.870-04:002012-09-20T19:11:50.870-04:00Hmm....I was reading this, thinking to myself &quo...Hmm....I was reading this, thinking to myself "Is this fucker telling me I'm a cranky bitch and I'm never going to change?"<br /><br />I still don't know if that's what you meant, but I do get the parts about people not changing. If someone is a certain way, and it's in their bones, that shit isn't going anywhere. And when people like that have other people Katherinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17782353454291857474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-42430272066551612172012-09-20T17:27:33.945-04:002012-09-20T17:27:33.945-04:00Also, I know this sounded like I'm being a cyn...Also, I know this sounded like I'm being a cynical hardass bastard who won't cut you a break, but I'm really not ragging on you. I think you're a really beautiful person to the core (and I don't think that's ever gonna change.)That's why I think it's pathetic that you've chosen so poorly when it came to picking partners. You don't have to save the world. Michttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16680769083569249961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1837554401757926052.post-45681666951481140082012-09-20T17:10:43.581-04:002012-09-20T17:10:43.581-04:00Actually I think you've gotten a better handle...Actually I think you've gotten a better handle on your temper the last couple of years. I know which button to push to send you over the edge, but in general you haven't been going nuclear on anyone the way you used to. Get this- is it because you're handling yourself better or because you've disassociated yourself from people who pushed your buttons all the time? <br /><br />I Michttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16680769083569249961noreply@blogger.com